盡情夢想 相信夢想 設定目標 盡力達標
羅思博士在此篇文章，分享如何讓你走向人生巔峰，實現夢想的方法。
你可能會認為，如果你做自己熱愛的事情，你就能夠讓夢想成真。
這是一個好的開始，但是不一定就代表你能夠達成夢想。
因為有一個最最重要的關鍵因素就是，你必須要有一個使命必達的決心。
那麼，要如何做呢?
1. 為自己的人生負起全責
你必須要有為自己的人生負起100%全責的自覺。
這代表你知道自己有負起自己人生的全部責任，即使出身不同、教育背景不同、許多條件不同，人生困境不同，但我們都有選擇權。
你可以選擇當下讓這些外在因素決定你的人生，也可以選擇由你來決定自己的人生。
從現在的你到夢想的路，你可以選擇放棄，也可以選擇永不放棄。
如果你選擇放棄的話，就代表你永遠到不了你的夢想。
如果你選擇永不放棄，就代表即使路途艱難，你有一股決心知道你會繼續勇敢前進，最終你將會抵達終點，完成夢想。
2. 順從你內心的渴望，相信你的夢想
傾聽你內心的聲音，讓你怦然心動的那件事，定義了你夢想的人生，也定義你心中最理想的那個你的模樣。
如果現在的你，對你的人生毫無感覺，或是覺得你的人生了無生氣，那麼很顯然的你的人生在某個環節可能方向失措，需要重新審視與調整，必須做出改變。
你必須在你的人生找到熱情，在你的工作、感情關係、人際關係、與金錢的關係等等，這一切都是必須的。
請對自己誠實，問自己: 你快樂嗎? 你滿意嗎? 如果答案為否，就要做出改變。
寫下讓你快樂的事情，並且將手放在心上，確實的感受這快樂的事情。
3. 知道在你完成夢想後，可以回饋社會/世界的事情
在這前往夢想旅程的過程，你可能一路走來接收到許多人的幫助。
當你清楚看見你的目標完成後，對這社會或是世界的貢獻為何，將能夠更激勵你完成夢想的動機，進而幫助你完成夢想。
同時這也能夠讓你在接受幫助時，能更感恩這一切的支持與幫助。
而你也能夠跟這些支持你與幫助你的人闡述你的願景與未來回饋世界的方式。
這也是你夢想的一部分，甚至讓你的夢想更為偉大。這不只是能讓你能更能與你願景的人有更真誠的連結，有時亦能得到更為到位即時的支持，加速你達成夢想的速度。
4. 設定目標
現在你已經知道你的起點，也知道你夢想的終點，可以開始來計畫目標了以及前往夢想的旅程了。
你的目標必須是非常明確，也必須是可以衡量的。目標必須包括長期、中期與短期目標。
你的目標必須讓你怦然心動，你的行動方案必須具體可行且可衡量。如果你的目標與行動方案是無法衡量的話，那代表不夠明確，請回到第一點再重新審視。
5. 決心
你的決心會帶你到達你的目標，無論過程發生甚麼事情，你都知道，無論如何你會繼續向前，你不會停止前進，你知道，你的決心將會帶你到達你的目標，搭飛機、火車、走路，你不會停止前進，永遠都不會放棄。
有一天，你會發現，你完成了你的夢想。
Dream Big. Believe It. Aim High. Do It.
Dr. Rose shares how to achieve your dream life in this article.
You might think that if you do what you love and are passionate about, then you can make your dream come true.
Well, it's a good start, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you will get to the destination of your dream.
The most important factor is doing what it takes to get you there.
So how to do that?
1. Take 100% ownership of your life
You must hold yourself 100% accountable for your life.
This means you understand your life is 100% your own responsibility. It's not how your parents raised you that makes you who you are. It's not because of the school you went to that you ended up in your current life. You always have a choice, unless you are in a war zone where you are not given a choice, because the only choice is often just between life and death.
Life circumstances might change from time to time, but you always have the choice to continue fighting with courage or to give up. If you decide to give up, then you will not keep walking, which means you will never get to your destination. If you decide to keep going, no matter what your life circumstances are, keep heading forward and be strong; you will reach your destination even though the journey is long.
2. Follow your heart. Believe in your dream.
Be sure you know what your heart is telling you. What makes your heart beat defines your life, which defines who you are as a person. If you feel your life is numb or lifeless, then it certainly means something in one area of your life is going in the wrong direction. You must make a change. You need to find your passion in your career, in relationships, in finance. It all counts. Please be honest with yourself. Are you happy? Are you satisfied? If not, make a change. Think what makes you happy. Write it down and feel it.
3. Know what you want to give back to society
During the journey, you might receive support or help from people. Knowing one day you will give back to society, it will further motivate you to reach your destination. It will also make you thankful when you receive help and support. For some people, if you are shy or have a strong ego that prevents you from receiving help, it will help you open your mind to receive help willingly, knowing one day you will give back to the world.
This is part of your dream, only to make your dream grander. You will mention not only your personal dream to people you meet but also the charitable work you would like to do when you succeed to all the people who you encounter. This will help you form a more genuine network of support, which can even speed up the journey.
4. Set a Goal and Plan Your Journey
Now you know where you are, and you know your destination. So the rest is simple. You set a goal and plan the journey to get there.
However, it is important to know the goals you set must be specific and measurable. You must set long-term goals, mid-term goals, and short-term goals.
A goal that cannot be measured is not a goal but an illusion. If so, you need to go back to point 1 in this article to rethink what really makes your heart beats.
5. Determination
Do what it takes to get there. By airplane, by cars, by bus, by foot. Do what it takes to get there. No matter what the setbacks in your life are, do what it takes to get there, and never ever give up.
You will get there one day.
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